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Bicycle Scar - TRAUMA and HEALING
As we embark on a new year, it's an opportune moment for self-reflection. Where should I focus my attention more diligently? Am I...
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 12, 2024


Are You Reacting or Responding to Life?
Man pushing boxes labelled with difficult topics You may have heard or uttered the words reaction and response interchangeably, however,...
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 5, 2023


A new self-development programme shows significant improvements in depression up to 3 months later.
A new self-development programme shows significant improvements in depression up to 3 months later.
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 13, 2019


Can mindset, cold and breathing really heal us?
I still hear the admonitions as if it were yesterday. “Wear a hat, it’s cold and you’ll get sick” “Cover yourself or you’ll catch a...
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 31, 2019


Can you press the pause button on life?
Some of the messages in this video resonate so strongly that it is difficult to stick with it and watch the whole 5 minutes. Do you have...
Oberdan Marianetti
Jun 20, 2018


Some Suggestions for Tiger Parents
This article will address a typically Asian phenomenon, 'tiger parenting', however, it is my experience that people from the West are...
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 27, 2018


We All Have Wings To Fly, Break Them Loose
I recently heard this sentence, "Be light as a swift, not as a feather". It's simplicity struck me for the images and meaning it elicited...
Oberdan Marianetti
May 18, 2017


Choose Your Life Purpose From Within You
It takes courage to sit still for a moment and look within... really look within. I see it during my work with corporates and I see it in...
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 14, 2017


Let's Start A New Sexual Revolution
Yesterday I watched a film for the fourth time, 'I Am' by Tom Shadyac. If you've not seen it I thoroughly recommend it. Towards the end...
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 26, 2016


We Are Equally Responsible For The Same Shit We Complain About
Today I want to share a few reflections that emerged from one of those random life events that most of us experienced, bird poo. As I am...
Oberdan Marianetti
Oct 17, 2016


“It’s too late when we die”
“It’s too late when we die”, this amazingly powerful reminder by Mike & The Mechanics seems to be topical to our modern, crazy,...
Oberdan Marianetti
Sep 27, 2016


Reflections On Being Perfect
It’s so easy to look in the mirror and think, rightly or wrongly, that we are a failure. We are constantly judging ourselves by the...
Oberdan Marianetti
Sep 7, 2016


Am I Normal? You Are!!!
One of the most frequent questions sexologists get asked around the world is, “Am I normal?” Exploring the complex dynamics behind this...
Oberdan Marianetti
Aug 9, 2016


Panda wisdom and the secrets to a fulfilling life
I wrote previously about the impact of spending a lifetime living by somebody else’s scripts. The way this manifests into adulthood takes...
Oberdan Marianetti
Aug 1, 2016


Life Lessons From A 3 Year Old
There are life lessons that come to us when we least expect them. It’s Tuesday morning, my wife left early for a business engagement, and...
Oberdan Marianetti
Jun 8, 2016


TED Talk - Tackling The Global Epidemic Of Workplace Unhappiness
Our lives are conditioned by other people's scripts. We grow up being told what to do, what to say and ultimately what to be. We need to...
Oberdan Marianetti
May 28, 2016


3 Lessons I Learned From A SLAP IN THE FACE
A personal experience a few weeks ago was a powerful reminder that we are not as awake as we think…a difficult experience to digest, but...
Oberdan Marianetti
Mar 22, 2016


Rediscover Your Sexual Essence
Sex is an integral part of our identity and erotic love is an important part of a relationship to be nurtured for a balanced healthy life.
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 17, 2016


Depression Is A Silent Killer
Today I wish to offer a short reflection that was prompted by the attached video. How many of your loved ones silently struggle without...
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 27, 2016


Expat life: curse or blessing?
It’s evening. You are sitting at the dinner table and the phone rings. Your partner picks up. “Hello?” Within a few seconds you realise...
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 19, 2016
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